Self-Love Spells vs Attraction Spells – What’s the Difference?

Written by Doctor Bula Moyo | Dec 4, 2025 8:17:46 AM

Learn the difference between self-love spells and attraction spells, how they work, and which one is right for your spiritual journey toward confidence and love.

Self-Love Spells vs. Attraction Spells

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Introduction — Two Paths, One Purpose: Love

In the world of magic, love is one of the most powerful energies you can work with.
But not all love spells are the same. In fact, two major branches exist:

  • Self-Love Spells

  • Attraction Spells

Understanding the difference helps you choose the right magic depending on your goals—healing yourself, attracting a partner, boosting confidence, or strengthening your aura.

This distinction is essential within Self-Love & Confidence Magic, and something Doctor Bula Moyo Love Spiritual Healer always explains to clients seeking clarity.

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What Are Self-Love Spells?

Self-love spells focus on you—your confidence, beauty, inner peace, and emotional healing.

They are designed to:

  • Heal self-worth wounds

  • Strengthen self-love

  • Build confidence

  • Release insecurities

  • Clear negative self-talk

  • Reconnect you with your inner power

  • Improve emotional balance

Self-love spells improve your inner world, allowing you to attract healthier and more fulfilling love externally.

Common Tools Used

  • Rose quartz

  • Pink candles

  • Moonlight energy

  • Affirmations

  • Mirror magic

  • Beauty enhancement rituals

  • Heart chakra work

Best For People Who Want To:

  • Heal after heartbreak

  • Boost confidence

  • Reduce self-doubt

  • Strengthen emotional stability

  • Become more magnetic and grounded

What Are Attraction Spells?

Attraction spells focus on drawing love toward you.
This can include:

  • Romantic love

  • Passion

  • Admiration

  • Attention

  • Emotional connection

Unlike self-love spells, attraction spells work outward—calling in love from the universe or a potential partner.

Common Tools Used

  • Red candles

  • Love herbs (rose, cinnamon, jasmine)

  • Attraction oils

  • Honey jars

  • Moon water

  • Venus energy rituals

Best For People Who Want To:

  • Attract a soulmate

  • Strengthen passion

  • Pull in new romantic opportunities

  • Enhance charm and allure

  • Deepen romantic chemistry

Key Differences Between Self-Love Spells & Attraction Spells

1. Focus of Energy

Self-Love Spells:
Internal energy → healing, empowerment, confidence.

Attraction Spells:
External energy → drawing love, partners, or attention.

2. Core Purpose

Self-Love Spells:
To make you feel whole, worthy, strong, confident.

Attraction Spells:
To bring love toward you from the outside world.

3. Long-Term Impact

Self-Love Spells:
Build a strong internal foundation and emotional stability.

Attraction Spells:
Bring opportunities for love—fast, passionate, often immediate.

4. Emotional Requirements

Self-Love Spells:
Best when you are healing or rebuilding.

Attraction Spells:
Best once your heart is ready to receive someone new.

5. Energetic Outcome

Self-Love Spells:
Create radiance, inner glow, stronger aura.

Attraction Spells:
Enhance charm, sensual energy, romantic magnetism.

Which Spell Should You Use First?

Most practitioners—especially healers like Doctor Bula Moyo—recommend:

Start with Self-Love Spells

Then move to Attraction Spells.

Because…

  • When you love yourself, you attract better love naturally.

  • You become less dependent on external validation.

  • Your energy becomes more magnetic.

  • You avoid unhealthy attachments.

  • You choose partners based on respect, not need.

Self-love prepares your heart, while attraction spells open the doors.

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When to Use Self-Love Spells

Use them when you feel:

  • Insecure

  • Unseen

  • Unworthy

  • Heartbroken

  • Negative toward yourself

  • Emotionally drained

  • Unbalanced

These spells heal your inner landscape before inviting love in.

When to Use Attraction Spells

Use them when you want:

  • A new relationship

  • A spark of romance

  • Passion and chemistry

  • Someone special to notice you

  • More romantic energy

  • A soulmate connection

Attraction spells amplify your allure and open pathways for love.

Self-Love Spell Example

Pink Candle Heart Expansion Ritual

  1. Light a pink candle.

  2. Hold your hand to your heart.

  3. Say:
    “I radiate self-love, beauty, and confidence.”

  4. Visualize pink light filling your chest.

Perfect for emotional healing and inner glow.

Attraction Spell Example

Red Rose Honey Attraction Spell

  1. Write your desire or person’s name.

  2. Place it under a jar of honey.

  3. Add rose petals and cinnamon.

  4. Say:
    “As this honey is sweet, so is the love drawn to me.”

Excellent for love magnetism and romance.

“Doctor Bula Moyo helped me heal with self-love spells before I did attraction work. Now I have the healthiest relationship of my life.”
— Tatiana, USA

“I used attraction spells after building confidence… and the results were FAST.”
— Nandi, South Africa

Start Your Love Journey Today

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Frequently Asked Questions

Should I do both types of spells?
Yes, but start with self-love spells for stronger long-term results.

Do attraction spells work if I have low confidence?
They can—but results are stronger when self-love is solid.

Is one type more powerful?
Both are powerful in different ways. Self-love transforms you; attraction transforms your relationships.

Are these rituals safe?
Yes. Both are spiritually gentle and beneficial.

Can I perform spells during any moon phase?
Yes—but:

  • New Moon = Self-Love

  • Full Moon = Attraction

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