Explore how spiritual spouses could be the reason behind persistent singleness and discover rituals to sever these bonds for a fulfilling earthly relationship. Contact Dr. Bula Moyo for help.
By Doctor Bula Moyo | Spiritual Healer & Relationship Specialist | Contact Dr. Bula Moyo on 👉WhatsApp ✅
You are beautiful. You are educated. You have a good job. You have a kind heart. Your friends always say: "I don't understand why you are single! Any man would be lucky to have you."
And yet... you are alone. Every time you meet someone nice, it falls apart.
They suddenly stop calling for no reason.
You get into a fight over nothing on the first date.
Or worse: You simply feel invisible, as if men/women look right through you.
You have tried dating apps. You have tried makeovers. You have tried therapy. But the problem isn't your personality. The problem is that Spiritually, you might already be married.
In African Spirituality, we call this phenomenon "The Spiritual Husband" (Umyeni Wendalo) or "The Spiritual Wife" (Umka Wendalo).
Here is the truth about this invisible jealous lover and how to break the bond so you can find real love on Earth.
In the Image above: Lonely person sitting on a bed or looking out a window: This image represents the deep sadness, confusion, and isolation you may be feeling right now. On the outside, you look like someone who “should” be happily partnered. But on the inside, you feel shut out from love, as if something unseen is standing between you and real connection. These are often signs of having a spiritual husband or wife blocking your relationships and causing prolonged singleness.
This is not a ghost haunting your house. It is a spirit entity that has attached itself to your aura, often claiming you as its "wife" or "husband."
The Jealousy: This spirit is possessive. It wants you all to itself.
The Blockage: When a real human partner tries to get close to you, the Spirit Spouse gets angry. It attacks the new relationship. It creates fights, confusion, or makes you look "ugly" or "boring" to the new person to chase them away.
How do you know if this is your problem? Look for these specific symptoms:
This is the #1 sign. Do you frequently dream of being intimate with someone?
Sometimes it is a stranger, sometimes a celebrity, sometimes an ex.
The Reality: In the dream world, this is not just a dream. It is consummation. The spirit is renewing its "marriage vows" with you. This creates a soul tie that repels real physical partners.
Do you wake up feeling like you ran a marathon, even after 8 hours of sleep? Or do you wake up with unexplained scratches or bruises?
The Reality: Your spirit was busy fighting or interacting all night. You are being drained.
Do you often feel sudden, irrational anger or depression, especially in the evening or when you are trying to date someone new?
The Reality: That is the Spirit’s emotion bleeding into yours. It is throwing a tantrum because you are looking for someone else.
Everything goes well for 3 weeks, and then—Ghosted. Or the guy suddenly says, "I just don't feel it anymore."
The Reality: The Spirit whispered in his ear or projected negative energy to push him away.
For men specifically (Spiritual Wife), you might struggle with erectile dysfunction with real women, but have no issues in your dreams. The Spirit is "locking" you so you save your energy only for her.
You cannot ignore this spirit. It will not leave on its own. You cannot pray it away easily, because it feels it has a "legal right" to you. You must serve it Divorce Papers.
This is a specific ritual called Ukuhlukanisa (The Separation).
The Diagnosis: First, I throw the bones to see what kind of spirit it is. (Is it a Water Spirit? Is it an Ancestor? Is it a darker entity?)
The Payment: We must "pay off" the spirit. We give it an offering (often white cloth, coins, or specific food) to say: "Take this and leave. I choose my earthly life now."
The Cleansing: I wash your aura to remove its scent. Once you no longer "smell" like the spirit, you become visible to human partners again.
Book a 👉WhatsApp ✅ spiritual consultation with Dr. Bula Moyo today for spiritual divorce rituals and relationship cleansing.
"I am 34 and never had a relationship last longer than 2 months. I had vivid sexual dreams almost every night. Dr. Moyo identified a Water Spirit that was attached to me. We did the offering ritual. The dreams stopped immediately. Six months later, I am engaged." — Thandiwe, Sandton ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"I thought I was just unlucky. But Dr. Moyo explained that my 'Spiritual Wife' was chasing away every girlfriend I had. After the cleansing, the heaviness in my chest lifted. I met a wonderful woman the next week, and for the first time, she stayed." — David, London, UK ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
You deserve a partner you can hold, touch, and build a life with. Do not let an invisible bond rob you of your happiness.
Let’s break the chains and open your heart.
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