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Astrological Compatibility: Why You and Your Partner Are Fighting

Couple fighting due to bad astrological compatibility, seeking spiritual advice from Dr. Bula Moyo.

Discover how astrological compatibility and spiritual healing can resolve relationship conflicts and restore harmony. Learn effective rituals from spiritual healer Dr. Bula Moyo.

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Astrological Compatibility: Why You and Your Partner Are Fighting (And How to Fix It)

By Doctor Bula Moyo | Spiritual Healer & Astrologer

Do you feel like you and your partner speak two different languages? Do small misunderstandings constantly explode into big arguments? You might love each other deeply, yet peace seems impossible.

In Europe and around the world, couples often blame finances, stress, or bad habits for their conflicts. However, as a spiritual healer, I look deeper—at the stars and the spirits. Astrological Incompatibility is often the silent cause of relationship chaos.

But here is the good news: Incompatibility does not mean you have to break up. It simply means your energies are clashing, and they need to be spiritually balanced.

In the Image Seen Above: Couple fighting due to bad astrological compatibility, seeking spiritual advice from Dr. Bula Moyo. The woman feels unheard and emotionally drained, while her partner feels constantly criticized and misunderstood. After trying ordinary solutions like counseling, long talks, and even temporary separation, nothing seems to restore peace. As their arguments become more frequent and intense—often triggered by the smallest issues—both begin to fear that their love is cursed or simply "not meant to be." In desperation, they turn to Dr. Bula Moyo for a spiritual reading, hoping to understand the hidden astrological forces behind their conflict and to receive powerful healing rituals that can calm their energies, reopen the path of communication, and save their relationship before it breaks completely.

1. The War of the Elements: Why You Clash

In astrology, every person belongs to one of four elements: Fire, Earth, Air, or Water. When these elements mix poorly, conflict arises.

  • Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) vs. Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

    • The Fight: Fire wants to act; Water wants to feel. Fire can "boil" the Water (making them emotional), while Water can "extinguish" the Fire (making them feel dampened or uninspired).

  • Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) vs. Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

    • The Fight: Earth wants stability and routine; Air wants freedom and change. Earth feels the Air partner is "flighty," while Air feels the Earth partner is "boring" or controlling.

The Spiritual Fix: We don't change your signs; we change the energy. I use specific Elemental Balancing Rituals—using herbs, water, or candles—to "cool down" a fiery partner or "ground" an airy partner, creating harmony in the home.

2. It’s Not Just Your Sun Sign (The Hidden Triggers)

Many people say, "But we are compatible signs, why do we still fight?" The answer lies deeper in your Birth Chart:

  • Moon Signs: This dictates your emotions. If your Moon signs are at war, you will never feel safe with each other.

  • Mercury: This rules communication. If your Mercuries clash, you will constantly misunderstand each other’s words.

  • Mars: This rules anger and sex. A bad Mars aspect causes explosive fights and sexual frustration.

3. Can Spiritual Healing Override Astrology?

Yes. Astrology is a map, but you are the driver. While a generic horoscope might tell you "Leos and Scorpios don't mix," African Traditional Healing provides the tools to smooth out that friction.

Through Cleansing and Binding Rituals, we can:

  1. Remove the negative "heat" from arguments.

  2. Sweeten the communication channels.

  3. Align your ancestors so they support the union rather than fighting it.

Zodiac sign compatibility chart showing Fire and Water sign clashes in relationships.
Zodiac sign compatibility chart showing how Fire and Water signs often clash in relationships, highlighting common emotional conflicts, misunderstandings, and power struggles between these elements, as well as the challenges they face in communication, trust, and long-term harmony in love and marriage. 
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Q: My partner and I have "incompatible" signs. Should we break up? A: No! "Incompatible" just means "requires work." Some of the strongest power couples are astrologically mismatched but spiritually aligned. I can perform a Love Sweetening Ritual to bridge the gap between your natures.

Q: Can you check our compatibility if I don't know my partner's exact birth time? A: Yes. While birth time helps for precision, I can use your dates of birth and perform a Bone Throwing Divination or Psychic Reading to see the energy dynamics that standard astrology might miss.

Q: Why do we only fight during certain times (like Mercury Retrograde)? A: Planetary transits affect sensitive couples. When Mercury is in retrograde, communication breaks down. I offer protection charms and guidance on how to navigate these cosmic storms without breaking up.

Q: Is this the same as Western counseling? A: It is deeper. Counseling fixes the mind; Spiritual Healing fixes the soul. We address the root energy causing the friction.


Testimonials: Love Written in the Stars

"I am a Taurus and he is an Aquarius. Every website said it wouldn't work. We fought about everything—money, travel, friends. Dr. Bula Moyo performed a grounding ceremony for us. It’s been 6 months of peace. We finally understand each other." — Greta & Lars, Stockholm, Sweden ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

"My boyfriend (Aries) was so aggressive with his words. I (Pisces) cried every day. I thought we were doomed. Doctor Moyo gave me a specific ritual to calm his Mars energy. He is so much gentler now. You saved us." — Sophie, Lyon, France ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

"I didn't believe in astrology until Dr. Moyo explained why we had the same fight every full moon. The protection spell stopped the cycle. Highly recommended." — David, London, UK ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐


Stop the Fighting. Align Your Stars.

Do not let planetary clashes destroy a beautiful love. If you are tired of the arguments and want to bring peace back to your relationship, let us look at your spiritual compatibility.

I can help you understand why you fight and give you the remedy to stop it.

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