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The Calling: Understanding the Signs of a Spiritual Gift

a serene ancestral altar adorned with various items symbolizing spirituality and connection to lineage.

Explore the signs of a spiritual calling, the symptoms, and steps to embrace your ancestral gifts in Southern African traditions. Learn how to acknowledge and navigate your spiritual path.

By Doctor Bula Moyo Love Spiritualist | 🌙 Let's Chat now on WhatsApp

In your journey of ancestral communication, you may reach a point where the relationship shifts. It moves from you "asking for help" to the ancestors "asking for your service." In many cultures, particularly within the Southern African tradition, this is known as Ubizo—The Calling.

A "Calling" is not a hobby or a simple interest in magic; it is a spiritual contract made before you were born. It is the ancestors choosing you to be the "bridge" for the family—the one who heals, the one who sees, and the one who intercedes. 

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In the Image above: The image features a serene ancestral altar adorned with various items symbolizing spirituality and connection to lineage. At the center, a flickering candle casts a warm, golden glow, illuminating a small bowl filled with herbs and a collection of ancestral photographs arranged thoughtfully around it. On one side, a beautifully crafted wooden statue of a guardian spirit stands tall, while on the other, a journal lies open, its pages filled with handwritten notes and sketches of dreams. The background is softly blurred, revealing a dimly lit room, evoking a sense of peace and introspection. Subtle hints of nature, like dried flowers and feathers, are interspersed among the altar's offerings, enhancing the spiritual atmosphere. The overall composition invites contemplation and connection with the ancestral realm, embodying a sacred space for communication and healing.


The Symptoms: How the Calling Feels

The Calling often feels like a "pressure" from the spirit world. Because the ancestors are trying to get your attention, they may cause disruptions in your normal life to force you to look inward.

1. Physical and Emotional Signs

  • Vivid, "Heavy" Dreams: Dreams that feel more like memories or instructions, often featuring snakes, water, or specific late elders.

  • Sudden Sensory Sensitivity: Becoming overwhelmed by loud noises, crowded places, or the "energy" of other people.

  • The "Unexplained" Ailment: Physical symptoms (like heat in the feet, headaches, or palpitations) that doctors cannot find a biological cause for.

  • Social Withdrawal: A sudden, deep need for solitude and a loss of interest in "normal" social activities.

2. The "Hand of Fate"

You may notice that no matter how hard you try to follow a conventional path, the universe "blocks" you until you acknowledge your spiritual roots. This is the ancestors "coralling" you toward your true purpose.


Common Spiritual Archetypes (The "Specialties")

Not every calling is the same. Your ancestors will call you toward the specific "office" that your lineage requires.

Role Primary Gift The "Work"
The Seer Clairvoyance / Prophecy "Seeing" events before they happen; giving warnings.
The Healer Herbalism / Energy Work Using plants and hands to mend the body and spirit.
The Medium Channeling / Communication Speaking directly for the ancestors to resolve family conflicts.
The Gatekeeper Protection / Shielding Guarding the family from "darkness" and external interference.

"Am I Crazy or Am I Called?"

This is the most frequent question seekers ask. The difference between a mental health crisis and a spiritual calling is usually found in The Result.

  • Mental Crisis: Often leads to a loss of function, confusion, and a disconnect from reality.

  • Spiritual Calling: While confusing at first, it eventually leads to increased clarity, wisdom, and a deep sense of responsibility. > Important Note: Always consult with a medical professional for physical or mental symptoms first. A true spiritual gift is supported by physical health, not destroyed by it.


3 Steps to Take if You Feel the "Pull"

  1. Acknowledge at the Altar: Go to your Ancestral Altar. Light your candle and say: "I hear you. I acknowledge the weight of this path. Give me the clarity to understand what is being asked of me."

  2. Seek an "Elder Check": In ancestral traditions, you cannot "initiate" yourself. You need a reputable elder or a traditional healer (Sangoma/Inyanga) to perform a reading and confirm the source of the calling.

  3. Stay Grounded: Do not rush. A calling is a lifelong marathon, not a sprint. Continue your daily work and family life while you slowly open the spiritual door.

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Reader Testimonials

"I spent years trying to be a corporate executive, but I was constantly sick and exhausted. I kept dreaming of my great-grandfather handing me a bag of bones and herbs. Once I finally sat down at an altar and said 'Yes' to my gift, my health returned overnight. I’m still in corporate, but I work with a peace I never had before because I know who I am."

Mandla K., Johannesburg


Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Can I "refuse" a calling?

You have free will. However, refusing a deep ancestral calling often leads to a life of "friction"—things just never seem to go right. You can, however, negotiate. You can ask your ancestors for time to finish your studies or to practice your gift in a way that fits your modern life.

Does a calling mean I have to become a traditional doctor?

Not always. Sometimes the calling is simply to be the "Prayer Warrior" of the family or to keep the family history alive. Not every "Called" person is meant to practice publicly.

Why me?

The ancestors choose the "strongest link"—the person with the most emotional intelligence, resilience, and heart. It is a burden, but it is also the highest compliment your lineage can pay you.


Pro-Tip: The "Dream Journal"

If you are being called, your dreams are your "Syllabus." Write every detail down. Over time, you will see your ancestors teaching you specific symbols or showing you specific herbs. This is your "Private Schooling" from the spirit world.


The call is heard... but how do you protect your energy? When you open the door to the spirits, you must also learn how to close it to the "unwanted" ones. Read our next post: Spiritual Hygiene: Protecting Your Energy in a World of Spirits.

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